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Welcome! First off, I want to give credit and thanks to the wonderful Dr. Elaine Aron who first introduced all of us to this important inherited trait of high sensitivity and who wrote the landmark 1996 book The Highly Sensitive Person: How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You. And, make sure you visit her website  www.hsperson.com.

Now, as an introduction to the trait of high sensitivity, see if some of these statements resonate with you, or relate to someone important in your life...

You, your partner, or someone important to you have a heightened awareness of subtleties in your environment, whether it's sight, sound, touch, taste, or smell.

You can become stressed out and upset when overwhelmed and may find it necessary to get away, maybe into a darkened room, to seek solitude, relief and comfort.

You are very creative.

You are very conscientious, hard working, and meticulous, but may become uncomfortable and less efficient or productive when being watched or scrutinized.

You feel compelled to file and organize things and thoughts, also enjoy simplicity and may become overwhelmed or even immobilized by chaos, clutter, or stress.

You are very uncomfortable when feeling things are getting out of your control.

You get a sense of comfort and well being when around a lake, river, stream, the ocean, or even a fountain.

You may experience mood swings, sometimes occurring almost instantly and can also be affected by other people's moods, emotions and problems.

You have a deep, rich, inner life, are very spiritual, and may also have vivid \s.

You are very intuitive and you feel that you can usually sense if someone isn't telling the truth or if something else is wrong.

You get concerned and think or worry about many things, and have also been told "you take things too personally."

You have had the experience of "cutting people out" of your life.

You were considered quiet, introverted, timid, or shy as a child.

Here are a few more to consider... Can be startled easily. Cautious in new situations. May have trouble sleeping. Extra sensitive to pain. Don't like crowds (unless they are kindred spirits). Avoids violent movies and TV shows. Has a deep respect and appreciation of nature, music and art.

Do some, or many, of these statements ring true for you, your partner, or someone important in your life? If so, you or they may be a highly sensitive person or "HSP." Whether you already know something about the trait and temperament of highly sensitive people, or if this is your first introduction to the subject, welcome! The goal and intent of this website is to impart information, provide support and be a resource to individuals with the trait of high sensitivity and for the people in their lives.

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Lightbulb ImageA lot has been discovered about the psychology and neuroscience of being a Highly Sensitive Person in the past few years and why you respond to events in your life in a way that sometimes seems so puzzling, far more than I can review in this website. But hopefully by highlighting some of the aspects of this trait for you, these few pages will give you some insight into why you often feel out of sync with the people around you.

I encourage you to check out the other pages here on the Highly Sensitive Person website for more information on the nature of what it means to be a Highly Sensitive Person, and how the Trait of High Sensitivity can impact you in the areas of your Personal Relationships and communication skills, your Career, your Health and Well-being, and even your Spirituality, and how by learning more about this trait you can use these insights and tips to begin to make adjustments in your life, your thoughts and your attitude to take the fullest of advantages of being a person who experiences life on a level much more intensely than the average person. And I've also added a new page describing my personal Life Coaching for HSPs service, if you'd like to be personally guided by me into exploring your amazing trait on a one-on-one basis.

I've put together this site as a brief overview of some of the aspects of being a highly sensitive person because from my years of counseling and coaching HSPs, it has become clear that most people with the trait of high sensitivity often think that there's something wrong with them because they feel and respond so differently from most of the "normal" people they interact with every day. And even when they learn about how their brains and bodies work, and understand the science that explains these differences, they often still regard it as something of a disability.

It is my belief that this trait is not a burden, but rather a special gift because it opens you up to a wide world of amazing possibilities and potentials.

You have a great inheritance and you are in a class with a great many very successful, accomplished persons. But as it has been said, with great power comes great responsibility, and you have a responsibility to take care of yourself, to protect your gifts, and to understand that you have a special relationship with the people around you who are not so blessed.


What Do These Famous People Have in Common?

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Abraham Lincoln....Carl Jung....Apple's Steve Jobs....Princess Diana. They are all HSP! (Highly Sensitive Persons) or what I also refer to as "Alphas" — those people who have an on going tug-of-war between their head and their heart, individuals who are in touch with both their Masculine and Feminine Energies.

 
HSP "Meetup" in West L.A.

If you live in Southern California you are invited to our HSP "Meetups" in Los Angeles are held on the 3rd Wednesday of every month. To find out more about the L.A. Meetups visit the Highly Sensitive People Meetup site to learn more, sign up and join our HSP Meetup group, and to RSVP for our next "Meetup." And because I'm also a Certified WANT® Institute Educator in Androgynous Semantic Realignment (ASR),™ her trademarked system of language and communication, I'm able to discuss Dr. Pat Allen's work, too. (See note on Coaching, below.)

We meet at the new SHARE Center, 6666 Green Valley Circle, Culver City, across the 405 Freeway from the Hughes Center, from 8 p.m. until 9:30 p.m. Suggested $10 donation is appreciated to help pay for the room. By the way, for those of you not able to attend our monthly meetings, we've tried an experiment and videotaped the most recent session. A DVD (and maybe even a downloadable video) will soon be available to show what happens at a typical HSP Meetup. If you're interested in viewing this, please sign into the Meetup page and let me know!

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These are sure to be interesting evenings learning about and discussing the trait of high sensitivity. If you're an HSP, they'll be evenings of learning to understand yourself better, and if you're a Non-HSP you'll learn how to better understand those Highly Sensitive People in your life. Because HSPs make up about 20% of the population, you are sure to come into contact with many of them, so why not make the most of those relationships; social, business and romantic?

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What Some Of My Clients Have Told Me....

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  • "Thank you! Thank you! You are responsible for changing my life for the better! Much Better!" — Darron S.
  • "Jim Hallowes' coaching and his work with Highly Sensitive People opened up a whole new awareness about my son and myself that gave me more relief and answers than anything else. He gave me more understanding of HSP and how we don't need to be fixed. I want to thank you for this gift of knowledge you are giving people. It has been truly helpful." — Tammy Hiatt Monaco, Life and Wellness Coach

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Disclaimer: Jim Hallowes is not a medical doctor or a clinical psychologist. As a Certified WANT® Institute ASR Cognitive Behavioral Coach, he works with people who are coping with life but who want to thrive and succeed even more. Any forms of assistance offered by Jim are self-developmental in nature, and do not replace medical or clinical psychological treatment. People who have a medical problem should contact their licensed medical doctor or other suitable qualified professional. Highly Sensitive People is the registered trademark of James M. Hallowes. Please note that Dr. Pat Allen's legal counsel has sent me a letter which directs me to state here that: "The WANT® Institute is not affiliated with this website/newsletter and does not sponsor or endorse the content of this website/newsletter or the services of Jim Hallowes." and "ASR (Androgenous Semantic Realignment) is a trademark of the WANT® Institute."


Honored to be named a Twoology® Relationship Expert.

Twoology logo Jim Hallowes, Relationship Coach, has been selected as "One of America's 100 Most Distinguished Relationship Experts" on Twoology.com — where you will find powerful relationship tools, their unique Romantipedia, expert videos by relationship experts and lots of other helpful information.

As they proclaim on their website: "Great Relationships are complicated. Twoology's A-B-C Relationship System Makes It Easy For Yours To Be Great." Twoology is the One Place for the Two of You and they offer you the tools to "Do It for Yourself. Do It For Your Relationship. Do It Now and Forever."

Click here to visit Twoology.com and watch the Introductory video and my own "How to cope with different emotional styles." Also in the series is "How to deal with different temperament styles" and "How to I deal with the HSPs in your life." Other videos on the site include how to keep yourself from becoming angry and much more.

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GenConnect logo I have also been invited by the people at GenConnect to join their Panel of Experts as the resident authority on HSP, along with Dr. Pat Allen as their expert on Relationship and Communication Issues. If you're not familiar with GenConnect, it's an on-line "Facebook"-type forum where you can interact with a wide variety of knowledgeable coaches, lecturers and authors on topics of self-development, and mingle with a community of like-minded individuals. They were also the co-sponsors (along with MORE Magazine) of the recent "Reinvention-Convention" in New York City which we both attended. Their website is really a great place to get a lot of up-to-the-minute information on a variety of topics, and of course you can view our Jim Hallowes and Dr. Pat Allen video segments there as well, at GenConnect.com/Experts.

 
Listen to Jim Hallowes' Interviews

The Aware Show Billboard I was the in-studio guest on Los Angeles' radio popular long-running The Aware Show with Lisa Garr, on KPFK 90.7 FM, talking about the trait of high sensitivity and Highly Sensitive People. According to Lisa, The Aware Show is "dedicated to communicating information to inspire positive growth and change. Our goal is an increased awareness and healing on an individual and planetary level." Listen to the complete show or you can order an audio CD-ROM from the Highly Sensitive People Gift Store.


UPDATE on "SENSITIVE -- The Untold Story"

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The exciting new HSP documentary is now available! Seven-time Grammy Award winner Alanis Morissette and her music feature in the movie in which she also tells her own compelling HSP story, and Dr. Elaine Aron herself explains all about the trait of High Sensitivity, which she discovered almost 20 years ago.

The Premier of the movie was held last October at the beautiful Legion of Honor where part of the movie was actually filmed. In addition to the gala premiere, "Sensitive" director Will Harper, producer Diana Harper, and Dr. Elaine Aron herself were present to discuss the production and answer any and all questions.

It's hard to believe the film was completely wrapped up start to finish in little over a year. This is entirely due to the generosity of all the HSPs who said they wanted it, and contributed through Kickstarter. And for those of you who did, your package of goodies, the Kickstarter "incentives," have been mailed out, including DVDs of the movie itself.

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Sensitive, the Movie

I am very much impressed by the film and especially how lucky they were to get the participation of seven-time Grammy award winner Alanna Morissette. Because I think Alanna's involvement works as a great example of an HSP but also will grab the attention of some of her millions of fans that she is highly sensitive.

We are expecting more information about future screenings of the film, and have included a link on how you can purchase your own copy of the "Sensitive — The Untold Story" DVD for yourself, and to share with others! Arthur Aron, Dr. Elaine Aron's research scientist husband, put it very well when people asked, "How do we tell people about the trait of high sensitivity?" He said, "Have them watch this movie." Good advice. Dr. Elaine Aron says: "This seems to be the big moment for HSPs to become visible. Ready or not!"

History of the Production

New discoveries often take a long time to filter down into the public consciousness and for professional educators to acknowledge new viewpoints. Dr. Elaine Aron wrote a landmark book on the subject of HSPs and has been researching the subject since 1996. That's why she was thrilled to be contacted by a high-profile film producer who wants to work with her to make a full-length PBS-quality documentry about the trait of high sensitivity.

She enthusiastically enlisted her fans in raising money to produce a "sizzle reel" (a kind of movie trailer for investment backers) and they responded with equal zeal. Now the project has successfully completed a crowdfunding project on the Kickstarter.com website for Sensitive: The HSP Movie. They have succeeded in reaching their goal with over $50,000 pledged by HSPs throughout the world.

Although Elaine is embarassed that the movie focuses so much on herself, the producers have reassured her (and us) that their film will thoughtfully explain what high sensitivity is, the huge advantages that come with the trait, and how to deal with problems that can occur when it is not fully understood. They will include interviews with many other researchers of the trait, as well as a diverse sample of highly sensitive individuals who will discuss how the trait has affected them and their closest relationships.

Sensitive, the Movie linkIf you'd like to get an advance look at this exciting project, please visit the fundraising website to view the sizzle reel. If you're an HSP it may be a bit overstimulating, with the quick cuts and strong images typical of a Hollywood movie trailer and meant to reach you emotionally. But the film itself will be a quality documentary aiming to raise awareness of this trait among both the general public and professionals and other researchers.

Indeed, the time has come for this information to receive a wider exposure, and what better way than to take advantage of the blessing of crowdfunding which is basically a way to let the people themselves decide what is to be produced. (It sure worked for Veronica Mars!) In this case, highly sensitive people will at last have a professional film that explains to other HSPs, and the people who they have to deal with, what this trait is all about. So many say understanding that this trait is completely normal has changed their lives by explaining why they have always felt different, and it has helped parents to appreciate how their children are special.

This film is fully endorsed by Dr. Elaine Aron and will help Highly Sensitive Persons throughout the world discover and learn about their inherited trait and offer an excellent way to inform the 80% non-HSPs about the trait of high sensitivity.

The film is being helmed by Emmy award-winning director (and HSP himself) Will Harper, and I'm excited to say that my friend Shari Dyer, who if you were on our Cruise to Alaska a few years back you may remember, is an Associate Producer on Sensitive!

It looks like the HSP's time has come!

Popular Singer Alanis Morrissette Will Also Be Starring

I'm especially excited because it has just been announced that one of my all time very favorite singer/songwriters, and 7-time Grammy Award winner, Alanis Morissette, will be sharing her own compelling HSP story, as well as her music, in the film! Judging by many of her extremely popular songs, she is definitely an HSP, and in interviews has confirmed that she has to deal with aspects of her trait of high sensitivity. If you aren't familiar with Alanis, I recently stumbled across this very simple rendition of her 1995 song "Hand in my Pocket" that was on her album "Jagged Little Pill." This song (that is the studio version from the album) was her first number one hit! I really like this very simple version of this song. I'm sure she will be adding an important element to this documentary as she relates her own personal story.



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Announcements: Events of Interest to Highy Sensitive People


Your Brain Has Been Hacked

If your computer has ever been hit by a hacker's virus, you know it was bad news. You lost a lot of time removing the intrusive code, may have lost valuable files or it may even have turned into a disaster and you lost your entire harddrive.

The Success Manifesto Complete CollectionThe human brain is very much like a super computer and, similarly, it can be hacked by damaging encoding -- only in this case the viruses come from your life experiences which get imprinted into your neural networks and can leave you with blindingly limiting beliefs, habits and mindset attitudes.

Removing these "viral beliefs" can become a Herculean task, and many people fall victim to lifelong weaknesses that prevent them from ever achieving the success, prosperity and clarity of thinking they long for.

But there's good news to all this. Researchers and neuroscientist experts are succeeding in "cracking the code" for understanding the way the brain works, and how to tap into the massive creative genius locked inside every brain -- including yours.

These startling new groundbreaking experiments have demonstrated that it is now easy to hack into the brain and change its programming the same way you can install an upgrade into your computer to improve performance and recover lost power. In fact, there's a simple mind trick, originally discovered by famous inventor-experimenter Thomas Edison a century ago, which can now be used to hack into your own brain.

Employing these newly refined techniques will allow you to dramatically increase your intelligence and your innate ability to attract prosperity and wealth into your life. You will be able to manifest super-creativity, easily come up with plans and business ideas that will showcase you as a brilliant genius and will pay off in undreamt-of prosperity. You will find yourself effortlessly attracting higher earnings and massive windfalls of money. More money, in fact, than you have ever thought possible before.

Does all this sound way too far-fetched to be true... or even possible?

If you're sceptical, stop reading now. But if you're willing to have an open mind about new possibilities in life, like the visionaries who created life-saving antibiotics or envisioned the amazing technologies of smartphones, the internet and Facebook, take a few moments to see for yourself the undisputable proof of how people, not measurably smarter than you or me, have wildly profited using Edison's "Secret Theory" to effortlessly magnetize massive wealth, success, prestige and fame into their lives.

People like Oprah, Steve Jobs, Richard Branson and Donald Trump.

I feel impressed to say you owe it to yourself, and the people you care about, to watch this video which explains how you can hack into the deep reserves of your brain, and see exactly how Thomas Edison's discovery can turn your everyday life into something you can only dream about right now. There's a potential superhero dormant within you waiting for you to bring forth to benefit your own life and the world around you. Take a few minutes to find out if I'm right.

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HSP "Meetup"

If you live in Southern California you are invited to our HSP "Meetups" in Los Angeles that are held on the 3rd Wednesday of every month. To find out more about the L.A. Meetups visit the Highly Sensitive People Meetup site where you can sign up and join our HSP Meetup group, and to RSVP for our next "Meetup." We meet at the new SHARE Center, 6666 Green Valley Circle, Culver City, across the 405 Freeway from the Hughes Center, from 8 p.m. until 9:30 p.m. Suggested $10 donation is appreciated to help pay for the room.

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